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relationship archetype quiz

When you understand what makes you tick, you're talkin 'bout a serious relationship upgrade.

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restorative justice strategy

No one deserves to be judged for the worst thing they've ever done in life. Grab the play by play strategy I used to convince a Fortune 200 Company to instate a 2nd Chance Hiring Program (yes, srsly)

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Cult leaders, be gone.

Most cult leaders don't wake up in the morning thinking "I'm gunna be an evil genius today" (+ cult survivors DEF don't say "I think I wanna be abused today".

This 4 part audio series dissects WTF is happening on both sides of the interaction so you can have a trained ear - and skill - around all of it.

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Repair: Fight Club for Lovers

The masterclass where "fine, whatever" dies a dramatic death and messy fights birth soul-deep connection. you're welcome ;)

Learn what makes you tick

relationship archetype quiz

  • Learn your superpowers and blind spots so you can own your badassery and dodge the drama.

  • The thing you really want underneath the thing you say you want (bc you deserve to actually GET IT!)

  • See the sneaky patterns that trip you up + how to handle them like a boss.

  • The singular adult lesson that, when you learn, will shift everything.

stop the cycle

restorative justice strategy

  • Learn how to identify an orgs scariest problem so that you can propose a compelling, non-asshole, solution (before AI makes a totally douchey recommendation that some middle manager thinks is genius *rolls eyes*)

  • Master the art of risk-mitigation so you can manage change initiatives without the door-slamming-in-your-face experience.

  • Design a smooth transition plan so that the email responses are filled with "I can't believe I get to be a part of this" instead of "sorry for the delay".

don't be fooled

cult leaders,
Be gone

  • Learn historical cycles of spiritual movements during times of crisis (spoiler: this moment isn't special).

  • Unpack why exploitative leaders often don't start out intending harm + why it happens anyway

  • The red flags that feel like belonging and meaning that you never saw coming.

  • How they keep you hooked long past your expiration date.

Repair conflict

fight club for lovers

  • Unpack where and how we learned how to fight like we fight (and no, it's NOT your mommy and daddy issues)

  • Learn a step-by-step, no bullshit, repair framework to navigate ANY disagreement. Anything? Yes anything - from dirty dishes to an affair - you're gunna wanna frame it.

  • Be inspired by real examples of conflicts that lead to deeper intimacy and connection so you get some coglioni (aka cojones aka balls) to try it yourself IRL.

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